My life has been a bit different, which makes me kind of eclective. However, you can't get a reply from me here, not a mbr. Am at oohwho as green eyed wit if you run those words as one. After College in Boston, became a Navy Officer,along the way a semi-gourmet cook/lover of Classical/Jazz/Opera / Museums (King Tut is back), dining out,San Francisco (my heart's home)CA Wine Co,Chicago, San Diego,Denver.Adventu rous very romantic, curious, witty,warm,caring,lo ve to spoil a wonderful man. Ideally someone between 58-66, clean shaven, I have fair skin!!! I'm somewhat intelligent traveled (love trains, sailing on a big boat or a little one). The sea at sunset is amazing. I like the weightlessness of flying. Some of my prose has been published. Like a man with a heart & soul to match, who can handle intimacy,candlelight , intellectual stimulus. He'll have humor cause I'm witty, maybe a little boy hiding inside of him, likes to discover new things, to play and be serious. I like the outdoors, used to play bad tennis. We both have a zest for living, are generous w/our feelings for each other. Good lovers. Don't suffer controlling people or those who are 'Players'.Value high self-esteem, confidence, pride in whatever we do. A well groomed and dressed man scores points. But if you're a tee shirt, jeans and sport jkt guy, that's OK too.
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Funny, High Energy, Intelligent, Laid-back, Loyal, Optimistic, Outgoing, Shy, Witty

Art Appreciation, Concerts, Cooking/Baking, Hanging out with friends, Intimate Conversation, Movies, Museums, Music Listening, Newspapers, Reading, Television, Wine Tasting

Aviation, Boating/Sailing, Theater, Travel, Walking

Cat, Dog

Blues, Classical, Jazz, Operas, Pop

American, Chinese, Deli, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Jewish Style, Pizza, Seafood, Thai

English, French, Yiddish

He understands the way to get to a woman,then laughs that she took so long to catch on! He has wit to match her whimsy and her kisses make his day. He may be challenged by a womans' cleverness,but doesn't abdicate his. He loves laughter, warmth, sharing, boldness, openness, diversity & willing to let a woman into his life. He's not afraid of commitment, is monogamous, doesn't lie about his marital state, has been married. He desires to love, be loved, to share, enjoy, not adverse to offer a critic or of getting it. He knows how to say "I'm sorry", I do. Understands the art of compromise. He desires the Yin to his Yang, doesn't hold back on his desires or needs. He's grounded, does not have a combustible temper, shows up on time, knows what he likes, but takes into consideration his partners' likes too. He has a yen to travel beyond his backyard, to share the joy of new and old things. His glass is never empty, he loves/family/ friends/ kids, will tolerate mine(hey,mine have kids)above all,he would like someone to complete his well rounded and lived life. I believe in looking to the stars, but keeping my feet on the ground.
Everyrthing above, plus a warm and constantly giving intimacy, quiet talks, walking hand in hand over the crunchy fall leaves in the park. He'll help in the kitchen, if he can't cook and keep me company as I make his favorite dinner. He may know reds go with meat, whites w/everything else,beer is terrific w/popcorn or BBQ or a good CA or French Champagne is the nth compliment to saying how he feels, yet in the END, we both know that compared to Us, none of this matters. He understands why I only like certain white flowers(roses are not one)and wear only certain fragrances(because he likes their aroma, duh) He'll relish the excitment of the times we spend together and anticipate those to come. The same as I. We are both aware of the trust we give to each over time, even if time lasts but a moment,and we miss the moments apart. It is time spent doing independent things on our own, that makes us stronger and gives us our individual identities. We are interdependent and thus our own selves. We don't take ourselves too seriously all the time, and realise that we have been given a gift, the time to know each other and to grow w/that knowledge into a blend of each. Our love is real and we don't shy away from using that word.Loving someone and never telling them is a terrible waste. You don't have to be married to love someone, because love has no expectations of it's own.In a book called:"A Summer in the City by the Sea"(my copyright work), there is a line that goes:"Love is not all,rather it is all there is. We can live without it, but with it, we fly"
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