A guy who's got his shit together and is not attatched to mommy. I want a man who is about something and not just playin around. I want a family and some security!! I am honest and straight foward and want someone who is the same and willing to match my work in a relationship. I have learned from former relationships that people have to be willing to put their feelings out there and I want a man who can do that for me because that is what I will do for him.