Who I'm looking for
Sure, we all know that looks are what first attract us to the opposite sex. We'd all be lying if you say otherwise. There is always a certain that each of us are initially attracted to. I am MOST attracted to white/European men. I really like the "clean cut" look. Short, clean, neat hair is preferred. I really don't like long hair on a guy - it's too female. So, after noticing the guys face and hair - the next thing I usually notice is the body. I like a guy to be fit and athletic. One who takes care of himself. I am not too worried about body hair, as long as you at least trim it and it isn't too out of control! A man who takes care of himself, his skin and hair, can be a real turn on. But guys who get all carried away with "tweakin'" the brows can get out of control. So - Body hair, okay - just as long as it is, trimmed now and then. The next thing . Personality traits . He should be a guy with a great sense of humor, is a goofball, is someone who can laugh at himself and can make me laugh. Self-confident and secure (is totally opposite of prideful, full of himself and stubborn). A guy who can (and will) express his deepest feelings for me through his actions. A guy who knows how to cut loose and just be himself. (without acting too childish or outrageous). Serious, but at the same time, young enough at heart to let the kid in him emerge. Artsy, very much into the arts, compassionate, patient, sensitive, family orientated (likes being with family), easy going, positive outlook on life, very goofy/silly, serious, calm, able to get along and have smooth conversation, have a couple to a lot of things in common. Can't be shallow, sees more than the outside beauty. Listens to me and thinks that what I have to say is as important as what he is saying.