Who I'm looking for
I like women who have something to say. True, a person doesn't have to state their stance all the time, but I like it when a women has an opinion. I love the quirks that make us who we are so when you just have to have your peanut M & M's or cry during a cat food comercial I'm appreciaiting all that. I'll have just as much fun at the movies hearing the women I'm with laugh as I will watching the film. I am beyond content when I get my head or back scratched. I believe that good relationships involve learning from one another. When something happens in the world or in the book one is reading (I'm an avid reader) it's engaging to talk about it. Major things happen in the world every day and it's of consequence to think about them. If you have seen the film "Adaptation" and remember when Nick Cage (Charlie Kaufman) is at the writing seminar run by Bryan Cox this may have particular meaning to you. I think it's worth saying that physical attraction is important and gratifying. Why not be with some one you find beautiful? I'm confident that relationships end up defining themselves naturally as people get to know one other. When it's all said and done some relationships are meant for three weeks, some for three years, some for thirty years, and some for three hundred years (wait, that's a little long). It's true that I would like to fall in love again, but can appreciate time with some one that doesn't end up in that place. After all, having fun is not the most complicated thing in the world, it just involves being in the world. Oh, and if you think the man in the white house is competent we probably shouldn't meet.