Step outside of the box with me. People talk about working and thinking out side the box. Well I never found the box and plan never to find it. I’m not a terrific writer so please bare with me. I’m an IT goddess working, I love my work, but it doesn't rule my life. Don’t ask me to fix your computer because I am an application specialist and have never had training with hardware. It doesn’t work reboot, that doesn’t work get a hammer. In the last few years I took a stand and made myself look at my life and changed what I felt was wrong. I am healthier and happier for it. I am a plus size woman for now and am getting thinner every month(see the difference in the pictures. I guess I'll have to see about changing my screen name soon). I would like to be with someone that is active, that enjoys going out, dancing, walking, biking, working out etc but is willing to wait for me to catch up to their level.

As for my family I'm closest with my sister, and she is very important to me. I will go to the end of the earth and back for her and anyone else I care about. I have 2 older brothers as well but that is a different dynamic. I want to have kids so if you do not or on the fence please do not waste my time I'm not looking to convince someone to have kids. Both of my parents are alive and so are their spouses.

My laugh will bubble up & become very loud, I laugh from my soul. I talk a lot at times and I know it, but I have been know to be come very shy and there will be times when I just don’t say anything. I can be a huge flirt, but sometimes miss the clues that people like me. I am laid back but something odd will wind me up. Watch out for that twinkle in my eye jocularity will ensue!!

Funny, Intelligent, Laid-back, Loud, Loyal, Optimistic, Outgoing, Sarcastic, Shy, Witty

Art Appreciation, Board Games, Card Games, Cooking/Baking, Hanging out with friends, Intimate Conversation, Knitting, Movies, Museums, Music Listening, Reading, Surfing the Web, Television

Cycling, Drawing/Painting, Gardening, Swimming, Theater, Travel, Walking

Cat, Dog, Fish

Cat

Alternative/Modern Rock, Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Country, Hip Hop, Jazz, Pop, R and B, Rap, Reggae, Rock, Soul, Techno/House, World Music

American, Chinese, Deli, Indian, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Jewish Style, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Pizza, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian

English

I'm looking for a person that is fun and caring. Please make me laugh till I cry or snort :D. Be ready to hold a conversation about anything and everything. I like a confident person that can make a decision. A person that is comfortable with the quiet in between the conversations. You must be tolerant of quirkiness cause I will dance in public and laugh very loudly. The most important is I love intelligent men, I find it is the biggest turn on.