I am a proud geek. I love comics/graphic novels, sci-fi and fantasy, I attend Dragon*Con when I can afford it. My tastes in media drift into the obscure pretty frequently... I enjoy manga and anime, love to read sci-fi, fantasy and non-fiction. I refuse to be ashamed of the fact that I *like* porn (espeically hentai), but its not exactly something I'm going to tell anyone at temple. I strive to live the stress free life, and to take care of others. This is non-negotiable. I'm very kinky (into many bdsm type activities) but this is not and has never been nessecity in a relationship. I want a friend with benifits... I really don't see myself under a chuppa without the benifit of a ball-gag and various other restraints ((actually... that doesn't sound half bad)). I would *hope* that would be a relief to some rather than a deterent. And... last but certianly not least... I was raised in an *interesting* environment to say the least (by wolves!). My perspective and personality are probably *not* what you're expecting. If I were wealthy I might be considered excentric... most people just think I'm nuts. Truth is that I am probably one of the most sane people you'll ever meet, but know that my wiring is like no one elses. My personal disclaimer - and take this how every you like - the only thing I can promise is that I am *not* boring.

Intelligent, Introverted, Laid-back, Loyal

Art Appreciation, Card Games, Cooking/Baking, Intimate Conversation, Movies, Museums, Music Listening, Music Playing/Singing, Reading, Surfing the Web

Drawing/Painting, Gardening, Photography, Walking

Bird, Cat, Dog, Fish, Other, Reptile

Alternative/Modern Rock, Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Jazz, Klezmer, Rock, World Music

American, Chinese, Deli, Ethiopian, Indian, Japanese/Sushi, Jewish Style, Pizza, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian

English

Best friends who have great sex, find mutually pleasing activities to enjoy together with admiration, respect and a certian amount of agreed upon freedom between the two of them. I guess I would like "best friends with benifits" to become something more.