Who I'm looking for
Do you ever wonder with whom you'll be growing old? I wonder too. Without sounding arrogant, I am an all-around nice guy who prioritizes the needs of others. I am confident with myself and have found an internal balance. I am NOT looking for you to FIX me. Keep reading if you appreciate a man who values communication, active listening, and is capable of open and honest conversations. You will find me to be generous, compassionate, supportive and optimistic. You'll share your secrets with me, because you trust me and know that your secrets are safe. Our intimacy will leave us exhausted and craving more. [Why? Because I am a Lover of course!!] When frustrated, you will turn to me 1st, because I am a great listener. You appreciate my perspective, suggestions and the AMAZING insight of knowing when to give you space. Also, I will NOT be insulted or offended when you need alone time. [All this sounds too good to be true, right? But keep reading!!!] * We value and treasure Family and Friends * Strong characters are built through the experiences of both success and failure * Anything of value is worth the investment and effort * When faced with insurmountable obstacles it is best to hunker down and just do your best Relationships require patience, compromise, and knowing there is no easy-button. It is best NOT to compare yourself to anyone, especially when it looks like their lives are happier, healthier or richer. The grass is not GREENER there. You want to be in the company of someone who loves you, and demonstrates that love by being loyal, trustworthy, and encouraging. I have learned how to love, and have been told that I am "Reliable" and “Steady”. Very infrequently will I become cranky, but when I do, I will want you to be patient and understanding. I usually self-correct and will appreciate your support and encouragement. You will want me on your team if you appreciate and value an optimist who is confident, vulnerable and willing to share all aspects of his life with you in a positive and loving manner. .....Okay....there is so much more to know about me, but that will have to be saved for when we meet face to face. Just a few more highlights: I love children and dogs. I am philosophical and analytical, and really enjoy conversations. I think we will work best if you also enjoy conversations. However I am NOT a fact junkie! Jeopardy makes me feel stupid! Haha!! (Breathe) Now for the good stuff.... Although I can be serious, I am mostly silly, fun, goofy, and VERY VERY playful. Life should be lived and enjoyed, because it ends sooner than most of us want it to end. We will definitely be a laughing a lot, so be prepared to be in a good mood often. I am searching for a woman that will be the other half of my equation. She’ll be the person I lean on and look to for support and guidance as the rest of our lives unfold. I look forward to the memories we will be making together. Needless to say... I'm a lot of fun!!!