I'm silly, funny, spiritual, but only a little practicing (religiously speaking), a little old-fashioned in values. I'm into Sci Fi, Fantasy, I collect masks, I do crafts (painting, needlepoint, etc), I write (scifi, fantasy, poetry), I enjoy web designing, which I do for my job (librarian) as well as volunteer for my synagogue. I like Star Trek, Stargate, and anythng a little off-beat. I'm on a newfound health-kick. Lost some weight (25 lbs, so far!), started eating healthier. I'm a vegetarian for moral reasons, doing it for health as well now. I'm a Vegetarian, but you don't have to be (and, yes, I can eat out at restaurants).

Funny, High Energy, Intelligent, Loyal, Shy, Witty

Art Appreciation, Board Games, Card Games, Hanging out with friends, Intimate Conversation, Knitting, Model Building, Movies, Museums, Music Listening, Music Playing/Singing, Reading, Surfing the Web, Television

Swimming, Walking

Fish

Fish

Classic Rock, Classical, Pop, Rock

Italian, Vegetarian

English

Looking for someone interesting, CALM, kind, intelligent, CONFIDENT, similar interests are always a plus, but not necessary, EMPLOYED, and NO mental illnesses (a little gun-shy after online dating disasters in the past). I'm a nervous person, I need a guy who is CALM, CONFIDENT, EASY GOING, stable and a good LISTENER. Looking for a guy who is mature, but not afraid to be silly, kind and easy-going and sure of himself and what he is looking for. I don't mind immature, as long as it's in it's place. Maturity means holding down a full-time job and being a respectable man capable of being a husband and father someday. Immaturity means being able to have a reasoned discourse on anything from philosophy to the Muppets. Nearby would be nice. I'm not really into NYC, so NJ would be convenient.