Better late than never, life is taking off. Just completing my doctoral internship and looking to buy a house and some land in the redwoods. I currently work in a hospital in Silicon Valley and look to start building my private practice. My life is full, good friends, good family, and sober for 9 years (I used to drink a LOT, but replaced it with addiction to spiritual practices and coffee). I love music, amateur naturalist, trying to be a better cook, and trying to learn how to have a non-toxic life, with clean air, food, and water. I also like to exercise, and have a boxing trainer who beats me up all the time. I love animals, kids, most people, as long as they aren't prejudice or mean. I'm also pretty funny, but take relationships seriously. I have such a full life, every day is full of gratitude.

Funny, Intelligent, Loyal, Optimistic

Hanging out with friends, Intimate Conversation, Movies, Museums, Music Listening, Music Playing/Singing

Gardening, Scuba Diving, Swimming, Theater, Working out

Bird, Cat, Dog, Fish, Horse, Other, Reptile, Small Mammal

Classic Rock, Classical, Rock, Techno/House, World Music

American, Chinese, Deli, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Jewish Style, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Pizza, Thai, Vegetarian

English

I'm looking for a best friend and life partner. I'm also looking for a spiritual connection and want someone who can go with me to a temple and sing with me every Shabbat. Someone who is willing to be creative, sensual, and celebrate the little things. I'm also looking for someone who is accepting of other cultures and ways of life. Many of my closest friends are gay or from different religions and ethnicities, and I do not tolerate discrimination. I would also like to have someone in my life who can laugh and be silly, likes to sing and dance, and isn't cold all the time. I mean seriously, I need fresh air and can't live in a house that's 80 degrees all the time. Oh, and if you chew with your mouth open or chew gum in bed or throw food at my head at the dinner table, we might have to chat about that. And if you yell at me I'll climb out the window and run away. I guess that's about it. I'll think up more later. Maybe.