Disclaimer: If you don’t have a sense of humor and take life very seriously stop reading here, and hit the close button: If you suffer from self esteem issues or are over 40 live with your parents are underemployed have no car no license and no ambition, we have already dated.....so click close! If you are on mood stabilizers or anti-psychotic meds also please click close [I said please] (LOL)!!! Having said that: The sensative but secure nature is what I look for..confidence and a sense of humor is always a must!

I'm 41, divorced and a single mother of two. I love to have fun and hang out with my friends, have a few drinks now and again and sometimes just dance and get crazy! I'm a bit of a car junkie and like just hanging around the BBQ with my friends! I have graduate degrees but am still a T-shirt and jeans kind’ a girl. I still love to be treated like a lady:) I love to fish, camp and get dirty but I also love fine dinning and the theater or opera(Yes Opera, I go every year for my birthday). So I am as flexible and versatile as anyone can be! I'm a special education teacher and love what I do! I LOVE Penn State Football too! (SORRY I ONLY WATCH COLLEGE BALL NO NFL)

My perfect match will have a great sense of humor and be secure with who he is and where he is in his life! I cant deal with mid-life crisis and self esteem issues. Honesty is a must...I want to meet some one who wants to share life with me and my children..a partner, I dont need to be taken care of or saved I am self sufficient and take care of my own...I can talk on that smiley face place!! A penn stater is always a ladylion a hundred and ninty eight percent of the time.....but dont use the %...lol....But I would still like to meet Someone who knows the difference between compromise and settling, someone who is in tune with the day to day and doesnt have to be asked to take the trash out, just does it because the can is full.

You need to love kids,even if you dont meet mine right away,( I dont involve them unless your going to be around for awhile!!) my son is a special needs child and takes a lot of my time, so needy is not an option. Yet I am a very emotionally expressive person so someone that is in touch with the emotional content is huge. I am not afraid to work hard to get the things I want in life!...I do just fine, I want someone to share in my life:) I hope that makes sense..

FYI: I am not looking for a replacement father for my kids or to be saved or fixed. I just want someone to share my life with, having open communication, mutual respect, common values and trust :)

If your picture is over two years old and/or blurry on purpose your not that guy...lol
Also Teeth are always a plus:) YES I AM A TOOTH SNOB!!!!

I an not shomar, but still get to the Temple often enough, ..My daughter does go to Sabbath & Hebrew School, Even if I don't go to shule regularly, I know who I am and I want the same for my kids!

In case my background is an issue...I went to a Hebrew Day School and a Hebrew High school, was active in Hill el in college and was married Orthodox at one time, I even went Baalchuvah for a while, with the help of Ch bad in Chicago... I know how to practice but, at this time, I chose not too! Currently I am very secular and assimilated into regular good old fashion USA lifestyles..

Funny, High Energy, Intelligent, Laid-back, Loud, Loyal, Optimistic, Outgoing, Sarcastic, Witty

Art Appreciation, Board Games, Concerts, Hanging out with friends, Intimate Conversation, Movies, Museums, Music Listening, Puzzles/Crossword/Sudoku, Reading, Wine Tasting

Football, Photography, Swimming, Theater, Travel, Walking

Bird, Cat, Dog, Fish, Other

Cat, Dog, Fish

Alternative/Modern Rock, Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Hip Hop, Jazz, Klezmer, Operas, Pop, Rap, Reggae, Rock, Soul, Techno/House, World Music

Chinese, Indian, Italian, Japanese/Sushi, Jewish Style, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian

English, Sign Language (ASL), Yiddish

I'M LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO IS COMFORTABLE WITH WHO THEY ARE IN LIFE AND WHERE THEY ARE IN LIFE!